Why the Difference..???

“Look that girl is smoking; she might be so bad mannerless girl.” A person said to his friend. They were talking about a girl whom the saw in a cigarette shop near the bus stand.

Few days ago while I was standing on a bus stand in crowd I heard that creepy way of judging any girl’s character. Two person aged near about 40 talking to each other about a girl who was smoking cigarette in public.

Is this the only way which tells about any girl’s character?

In this modern world, where we Indians challenges for our modernization, still judge a girl or give opinion about anyone’s character without knowing a single penny about them. What is the big deal in a girl smoking cigarette?

When all the females having same right as of males, then why is the difference!!! Is the male one who use to smoke, of very good character or what is the bad thing in it. Whatever is bad is bad for all. Badness never differentiates between male and female.

If you do the same things then it doesn’t defines your character, why? because you are male. Is that the only valid reason? If she goes to party, having more male friends, doing night outs then we the people often called her a slut and if you do the same things, having more female friends in your friend circle then you are a stud, what a great thinking!!!

I often heard the things in my friend circle too. Two person met, fall in love with each other, make out and after some days both moved on. The irony is that the male one is called as stud now and the female one is now a slut, why?

In most of the fields female are doing better than the male ones. Many ladies are on the top position in the business world and many other fields other than corporate sector. Then why the difference?

Calling ourselves of the modern culture does not make us modern. What make us is to accept the change. Females are nowhere backwards anymore. So first try to judge yourselves and ask from your inner side why the difference.

They have their own life, let them live that one their way. Thereafter you are stepping towards modernization.

                                Think it; Feel it; and Respect The Girls.